
Need urgent help. Just happened. My husband and p o r n?
Been married less than2 years, we are an older couple. My husband knew that I divorced last husband cos he wastoo interested in p o r n and ignored me. I knew new husband had porn but he chucked it away and told me he wouldnt look at it cos really makes me insecure and totally ruined previous relatinship. We have good sex life and do lots of things maybe other people dont do like swinging which i enjoy too, so he’s not deprived in any way. Our old laptop packed up recently and we bought new one. Tonight I found it hidden in his car under tools etc in a bag and the dvd part obviously still works cos he’s got loads of p o r n dvds in there incl one with dogs! Where do i go from here? its not just the p o r n its the lying and concealing. Please help if you can bother to give a serious answer. I am going to act normal til i decide what to do.
There is too much emphasis placed on porn. People listen to all the negative information and little about the positive.
First off less than 5% of those who watch porn are “addicted” to it. Most every person who watches porn becomes bored with it in an average of 60 to 90 days. I watch porn and become very bored with it often in a matter of a half hour or so. It is just the same thing over and over and over.
Now think of this. God made our bodies, and according to His word He made man according to His image, and He said we were made very good. If we are made in His image and he said we are made good then to say that the naked body is bad is calling God a liar! He also has no problem with our naked bodies. Wasn’t the first thing he said to Adam and Eve, “Who told you that you were naked?”
God also gave us two things to be enjoyed, one was food, not only does it nourish our bodies but it brings people together in fellowship. The other is sex. He gave us sex to be enjoyed as well as to procreate.
Think of porn not as a shameful thing but as a way of making your sex lives better; a tool of eduction if you will. Porn in itself is not bad…only narrow minded people make it bad. I am not saying you are narrow minded but that you need to look at it from a truthful aspect.
Should you desire more information, please email me through Yahoo answers. I have a ton of good information. Including information on swinging.
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